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How Imagination Shapes Reality in Relationships

When we talk about relationships, the issue is often not reality itself, but what a person does with reality in their own mind.

As Freud observed, there is often little difference in the psychological importance we give to imagination and reality. What matters most is not whether something is objectively true, but how it is experienced internally. Reality, in this sense, is frequently what people choose to see rather than something entirely objective.

In relationships, it is natural to develop assumptions, misinterpretations, and even mild delusions. This is an aspect of relationships that is rarely discussed openly, yet it plays a major role in many relationship difficulties.

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How Therapy Can Help You Find Your Way in Relationships

Relationships can be one of the most rewarding parts of life, but they can also be a source of deep confusion, frustration, and emotional pain. This post has the therapeutic aim of helping people find their way in relationships.

Over the last 30 years, since I began my career in therapy, I have helped many individuals and couples work through a wide range of relationship difficulties. These include:

  • Conflict resolution
  • Sexual problems
  • Anger management
  • Issues of jealousy and control
  • Relationship anxiety and loss of confidence
  • Strengthening relationships that are already good but could be even better

This is not a comprehensive list. Relationship difficulties are highly personal, and the way an issue is experienced depends very much on the individual and their life circumstances.

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HYPNOTHERAPY AND PAIN CONTROL

Hypnotherapy can be an effective way to manage chronic pain, tension-related pain, and stress-related physical discomfort. By combining relaxation, guided imagery, and suggestion, hypnosis can help people change how pain is experienced and responded to. This article explains how hypnotherapy can help with pain control and the techniques that may be used in sessions.

Pain is an unpleasant sensory or emotional experience which is linked with actual or potential tissue damage or is described in terms of such damage.

Pain behaviour is the extent to which people will behave as if the pain is still there even after the tissue damage has healed.

Pain is a relative concept. One person’s pain is another person’s inconvenience.

For example, some people have such a fear of the amount of pain they will experience at the dentist that they have even been known to pull a tooth out at home in a much more painful way.

Clearly then it is the context that is important here rather than the amount of pain.

An individual’s previous experience, personality, pain behaviours, coping strategies and social environment are all important in determining how pain is experienced and reported.

Thus to assess fully the extent of pain experienced not only physiological factors should be considered but also psychosocial and behaviourial expressions of pain.

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“CURING” PHOBIAS THROUGH HYPNOTHERAPY

Imagine you’re in your bedroom and you have turned the light off. You realise that you have forgotten to close the curtains as the moonlight is streaming through the window.

Then you freeze in absolute terror. What is the demon in the chair at the end of the bed ready to pounce on you? For an hour you keep very still so it won’t move toward you. You hardly dare to breathe. Another hour passes and you haven’t slept a wink.

Now you are becoming desperate. You can’t keep this up all night “something” will have to be done. With microscopic movements you move your hand towards the light switch on the cord of the bedside lamp. Painfully slow but the thing doesn’t respond to such slow motion.

You feel the switch and flood the room with light. There on the back of your chair is the jacket you put on it earlier and then completely forgot about in your terror.

A far fetched example? No, because it is possible to have phobias about absolutely anything and this applies to clothing too. While it is hard to understand if you don’t have the phobia for people who do it is all too real.

It is a basic principle of hypnotherapy that the therapist helps to deal with problems but does not cure them as such. The closest one can come to a cure is when dealing with phobias.

It is possible for phobias to disappear when treated appropriately but the note of caution is that the person has to be aware that it can return. The idea then is to give permanent techniques to deal with phobias rather than aiming for a “cure” as such.

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THE USE OF HYPNOTHERAPY IN SLEEP AND DREAMS

The use of hypnotherapy to help people’s sleep patterns is becoming more and more common. Because of shift work and the general demands that modern society makes on people in terms of constant stimulation whether through entertainment, drugs (legal or illegal), the bombardment of sound and noise, the excessive use of alcohol – which is known to disturb sleep patterns all this has led to our 24/7 world in which it is even thought by some that “sleep is for wimps.”

A pub quiz question could be “Who first said, ‘Sleep is for wimps?’”. What is certain is that there is no overall agreement as to how much sleep we really need to function properly. It is thought, though, that one out of every four people does not get enough sleep.

Hypnotherapy for sleep problems in Newport
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